You Dirty Tax Collector!!!!

Something very silly, that I won't mention has be conflicted. Those of you, who know me, know that I have the tendency to get inside my head and over think things....lol...but I'm thinking maybe if I get this out it will be better.

Now the Bible says in Luke 17:3-5 "So be careful how you live. If your brother offends you, take him to task about it, and if he is sorry, forgive him. Yes, if he wrongs you seven times in one day and turns to you and says, 'I am sorry' seven times, you must forgive him. And the apostles said to the Lord, 'give us more faith.'"

The definition of offend is: to irritate, annoy, or anger; cause resentful displeasure in…The KJ version says "trespass"…which means to miss the mark. So I'm guessing in relationships there are expectations (a bulls eye, so-to-speak) and when we become irritated, annoyed, or angered a mark has been missed. This is just my thinking (if you disagree that's fine)…So when this happens you are supposed to talk to that friend about it. I tend to tell myself that even when someone upsets me, it's not that big of a deal and I can just get over it. But here in the Bible it doesn't say get over it…it says talk to your friend about it! And the Bible doesn't say if your friend immensely offends you….so like "sin" against God, sin against one another is not categorized. A sin is a sin, is a sin…Now once you talk to your friend your friend can choose to apologize…and at the point you forgive the person. If you "get over it" and don't talk about the offense, are you robbing your friend of the forgiveness the word says we all deserve? Or is it water under the bridge, and gone forever? IDK And what happens if your friend does not repent? Well let's go back to the word…

Matthew 18:11-14 "If your brother sins (against you), go and tell him his fault between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have won over your brother. If he does not listen, take one or two others along with you, so that 'every fact may be established on the testimony of two or three witnesses.' If he refuses to listen to them, tell the church. If he refuses to listen even to the church, then treat him as you would a Gentile or a tax collector.

So at this point you take a couple of people with you…this part always confused me, but it's based on the Old Testament.

Deut 19:15." One witness alone shall not take the stand against a man in regard to any crime or any offense of which he may be guilty; a judicial fact shall be established only on the testimony of two or three witnesses.

In other words you bring in a neutral party…finally it says tell the church. Here church refers not to the entire church of Jesus, but to the local congregation. In the end it says if he refuses to listen then treat him like a Gentile or tax collector. Back in the day, Jewish people avoided the company of Gentiles and tax collectors.

To be honest in many of my relationships I skipped the first couple of steps and unintentionally moved my friends into the "tax collector" category! Sometimes I just complete one step but my words come out wrong. You know how that is…things are said in the heat of the moment…and thought the words may be true they aren't said in a receptive way…. Colossians 4:6 says Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone. Today I'm resolving to take the Bible steps of conflict resolution! And I want to encourage you to do the same thing, because it is a big deal and you never really get over it if you don't 'deal with it.

So I guess that silly thing that I won't mention isn't so silly and needs to be mentioned! If I start mentioning things to you my friend, I'm just doin what my Daddy said to do…J

We Fall Down?

Today I wore my "Louisiana's Victory Run" Chi Alpha shirt...The Louisiana Victory Run is where a group of students run onto, and around the football field with a huge Louisiana State Flag prior to all ULL home football games. It took about 30-40 people to run with the flag. The first time I did it, I planned to bring my little sister along, but at the last minute she backed out because she said that she was scared that she would fall. Apparently, that's why a lot of people didn't do it. I NEVER thought about falling! Not once! That kind of reflects my general take on life. When I decide to do something I don't think about falling. Many people had fallen participating in the Victory Run...some had gotten rope burn from the handles of the flag... (Can you imagine falling participating in the victory run? People could literally run all over you!)When I decided that I wanted to participate, I didn't ask anyone how they liked it or to tell me about their experiences; I just signed up and showed up! See, I get these ideas and jump right into them and never once think that I'll be unsuccessful. In some aspects that sounds good because it shows that I have confidence and faith. The unfortunate part is that in life sometimes I do fall, and when I do, it feels horrible. I mean it nearly devastates me; no one has probably ever seen me devastated because I put on a brave face in front of others...But maybe it wouldn't be so devastating if I thought about falling before I signed up...Things to think about would be, what will I do in the case that I do fall...I could talk to others who have taken on similar feats...I could pray for comfort before I reach that point where I my emotions overtake me...IDK Just thought I'd share that with you. So next time you decide to take that run realize that falling is a real outcome and make yourself a contingency plan! Think about falling but don't dwell on it.....

You Dirty Tax Collector

Something very silly, that I won't mention has be conflicted. Those of you, who know me, know that I have the tendency to get inside my head and over think things....lol...but I'm thinking maybe if I get this out it will be better.

Now the Bible says in Luke 17:3-5 "So be careful how you live. If your brother offends you, take him to task about it, and if he is sorry, forgive him. Yes, if he wrongs you seven times in one day and turns to you and says, 'I am sorry' seven times, you must forgive him. And the apostles said to the Lord, 'give us more faith.'"

The definition of offend is: to irritate, annoy, or anger; cause resentful displeasure in…The KJ version says "trespass"…which means to miss the mark. So I'm guessing in relationships there are expectations (a bulls eye, so-to-speak) and when we become irritated, annoyed, or angered a mark has been missed. This is just my thinking (if you disagree that's fine)…So when this happens you are supposed to talk to that friend about it. I tend to tell myself that even when someone upsets me, it's not that big of a deal and I can just get over it. But here in the Bible it doesn't say get over it…it says talk to your friend about it! And the Bible doesn't say if your friend immensely offends you….so like "sin" against God, sin against one another is not categorized. A sin is a sin, is a sin…Now once you talk to your friend your friend can choose to apologize…and at the point you forgive the person. If you "get over it" and don't talk about the offense, are you robbing your friend of the forgiveness the word says we all deserve? Or is it water under the bridge, and gone forever? IDK And what happens if your friend does not repent? Well let's go back to the word…

Matthew 18:11-14 "If your brother sins (against you), go and tell him his fault between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have won over your brother. If he does not listen, take one or two others along with you, so that 'every fact may be established on the testimony of two or three witnesses.' If he refuses to listen to them, tell the church. If he refuses to listen even to the church, then treat him as you would a Gentile or a tax collector.

So at this point you take a couple of people with you…this part always confused me, but it's based on the Old Testament.

Deut 19:15." One witness alone shall not take the stand against a man in regard to any crime or any offense of which he may be guilty; a judicial fact shall be established only on the testimony of two or three witnesses.

In other words you bring in a neutral party…finally it says tell the church. Here church refers not to the entire church of Jesus, but to the local congregation. In the end it says if he refuses to listen then treat him like a Gentile or tax collector. Back in the day, Jewish people avoided the company of Gentiles and tax collectors.

To be honest in many of my relationships I skipped the first couple of steps and unintentionally moved my friends into the "tax collector" category! Sometimes I just complete one step but my words come out wrong. You know how that is…things are said in the heat of the moment…and thought the words may be true they aren't said in a receptive way…. Colossians 4:6 says Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone. Today I'm resolving to take the Bible steps of conflict resolution! And I want to encourage you to do the same thing, because it is a big deal and you never really get over it if you don't 'deal with it.

So I guess that silly thing that I won't mention isn't so silly and needs to be mentioned! If I start mentioning things to you my friend, I'm just doin what my Daddy said to do

...we’ve become a generation of overly sensitive people who refuse to tolerate anyone

I want to know, am I the only person who thinks that there are way too many rules? I just ran across an article that said there is a new "no standing rule" for Kansas City Chiefs games…being a football fan this really bothered me.

The whole reason I go to football games is to be in a crowd of standing yelling fans…It makes the game good for me. I don't understand people just sitting down…especially the entire time. I mean if I can't see the game, I'll just stand up too…lol…I love to see people excited and smiling and laughing. Some may think the fan "obstructing my view" is ruining the game for me…but me being upset that someone is excited about the event is what is ruining the game for me. That's a metaphor for life. LOL you hear that saying it's not what happens to us, but how we respond. Now if I need special concessions, most stadiums make those available.

I guess rules like this are inevitable. It's like we've become a generation of overly sensitive people who refuse to tolerate anyone.

OMG and who can forget the "sagging pants" ordinances. OF all the problems in the world you CHOOSE to be offended by someone else's choice of dress? How silly is that?

No talking in movies. I realize I may lose a lot of you with this one. But I think "no talking in the movies" is a silly rule. You can always see the movie again in 2 weeks when it's on video! But you can't get that experience back. I love to hear people's comments and jokes…I love to make them too!? In the end it's just a movie… Who cares if you didn't hear that last line? Who cares if a baby is crying? That's what babies do! LOL Thank God babies can cry as to alert us when they have a problem…and thank God that the parents decided to take time out to do something for themselves.

I want to encourage you to change your attitude about other people's actions…everyone who stands up in front of you or steps on your foot isn't being inconsiderate…I'm sure no one is bringing their baby to church or the movies so they can cry and annoy you (do you know how much daycare/babysitters are?)…not everyone who's cell phone rings in class left it on purposely to disrupt your education…lol

Lighten up people!

...we’ve become a generation of overly sensitive people who refuse to tolerate anyone

I want to know, am I the only person who thinks that there are way too many rules?

I just ran across an article that said there is a new "no standing rule" for Kansas City Chiefs games…being a football fan this really bothered me. The whole reason I go to football games is to be in a crowd of standing yelling fans…It makes the game good for me. I don't understand people just sitting down…especially the entire time. I mean if I can't see the game, I'll just stand up too…lol…I love to see people excited and smiling and laughing. Some may think the fan "obstructing my view" is ruining the game for me…but me being upset that someone is excited about the event is what is ruining the game for me. That's a metaphor for life. LOL you hear that saying it's not what happens to us, but how we respond. Now if I need special concessions, most stadiums make those available. I guess rules like this are inevitable. It's like we've become a generation of overly sensitive people who refuse to tolerate anyone. OMG and who can forget the "sagging pants" ordinances. OF all the problems in the world you CHOOSE to be offended by someone else's choice of dress? How silly is that? No talking in movies. I realize I may lose a lot of you with this one. But I think "no talking in the movies" is a silly rule. You can always see the movie again in 2 weeks when it's on video! But you can't get that experience back. I love to hear people's comments and jokes…I love to make them too!? In the end it's just a movie… Who cares if you didn't hear that last line? Who cares if a baby is crying? That's what babies do! LOL Thank God babies can cry as to alert us when they have a problem…and thank God that the parents decided to take time out to do something for themselves. I want to encourage you to change your attitude about other people's actions…everyone who stands up in front of you or steps on your foot isn't being inconsiderate…I'm sure no one is bringing their baby to church or the movies so they can cry and annoy you (do you know how much daycare/babysitters are?)…not everyone who's cell phone rings in class left it on purposely to disrupt your education…lol

We Fall Down?

Today I wore my "Louisiana's Victory Run" Chi Alpha shirt...The Louisiana Victory Run is where a group of students run onto & around the football field with a huge Louisiana State Flag prior to all ULL home football games. It took about 30-40 people to run with the flag. The first time I did it, I planned to bring my little sister along, but at the last minute she backed out because she said that she was scared that she would fall. Apparently, that's why a lot of people didn't do it. I NEVER thought about falling! Not once! That kind of reflects my general take on life. When I decide to do something I don't think about falling. Many people had fallen participating in the Victory Run...some had gotten rope burn from the handles of the flag... (Can you imagine falling participating in the victory run? People could literally run all over you!)When I decided that I wanted to participate, I didn't ask anyone how they liked it or to tell me about their experiences; I just signed up & showed up! See, I get these ideas & jump right into them & never once think that I'll be unsuccessful. In some aspects that sounds good because it shows that I have confidence & faith. The unfortunate part is that in life sometimes I do fall, & when I do, it feels horrible. I mean it nearly devastates me; no one has probably ever seen me devastated because I put on a brave face in front of others...But maybe it wouldn't be so devastating if I thought about falling before I signed up...Things to think about would be, what will I do in the case that I do fall...I could talk to others who have taken on similar feats...I could pray for comfort before I reach that point where my emotions overtake me...IDK Just thought I'd share that with you. So next time you decide to take that run realize that falling is a real outcome & make yourself a contingency plan! Think about falling but don't dwell on it.....

Life is Fogging Up my Faith Goggles

In mark 9 there is a story about a boy who is possessed with a spirit...and his father approaches Jesus asking Jesus to remove the spirit. At a point in the exchange, the man says, I believe, help my unbelief. That's how I feel now. Everyone seems to be so excited about my life, everyone except me. I believe the Word of God and I know it is relevant to my life. I try to remind myself that God is able to do exceedingly and abundantly more than I can ever imagine according to his power that is working in me...but life keeps clouding my view. I feel like my life is an accident waiting to happen.

Sometimes when I drive in the rain, a truck will cut me off and in addition to the rain falling on my windshield, the truck will cause more water to rise up and obstruct my view....and for a moment, it's really scary because I can't see what is in front of me. That's how I feel right now. I'm on a journey to a place that I've imagined and it's so awesome. My life is fulfilled and I'm a blessing to everyone around me. I'm not struggling and I'm living in the overflow. And that place I've imagined is 1000 times worse than what God has in store for me! But for moments, that seem like forever something big gets in front of me...money problems, job rejections, disappointment, etc...and that big thing unleashes a whole mess of drama that further fogs up my faith goggles.

The sad part is, I saw the truck coming in my rear view mirror, but I wanted to believe that he would keep driving right passed me. It was the only beneficial option...unless I sped up. But speeding is wrong....I wish trucks weren't on the road (you know what I mean). But they are. I believe. I want to be excited about my life and excited about what God has in store for me. I believe, because I've come really far in life.

God continually proves Himself faithful in my life. Strengthening me when I am weak, providing for me even when I don't realize I'm in need, loving me unconditionally, keeping me safe. Renewing me...He's so amazing. I know if it were not for Him I'd be in a bad place right now. But at the same time I am doubting...

I Believe Help My Unbelief Lord Jesus.

That truck is going to continue down the road and before I know it the windshield wipers will clear my view. The rain will eventually stop. The rain always stops and the sun shines into my life. I believe. I believe. Lord thank You for proving Yourself faithful in my life. I'm reminded of Job who was tested but did not falter. Lord help me to keep my faith in You and demonstrate that faith through my daily walk. My actions...my thoughts...my words Lord. Lord bless me to use discernment when listening to advice and comments from outsiders, You use people in our lives, but Satan does too. I rebuke Satan's plan for my life in Your precious name Jesus. Remove the evil spirits from around me...I speak healing and prosperity onto my life. I believe. Thank You for being you Father. Thank you for loving me.